Sometime life has a way of throwing you curves, everytime I feel like I am getting my life together something seems to get in the way. When my boys where growing up I did everything with them, for them, anything... One of my sons is so kind hearted to me all the time, he calls me almost daily and always tells me he loves me it means the world to me, then my other son who I know loves me, I just don't understand him he won't answer or return my calls and it hurts. I know he has his phone with him all the time and is just ignoring me WHY I just don't know. I am not the meddling mother type I would never do that when I do get to talk to him I act as though nothing is wrong but I do tell him it would be nice if he could call me at least once a week, do you think that's to much to ask? He just bought a house and I would love to see it but he told me about a month ago he wants to fix it up before he lets anyone in to see it, I am OK with that I just hate being shut out of his life. My other son says not to take it personal because he does this to everyone, I just can't understand I brought him up to be a loving caring person I know he is but he has shut himself off from me, I have not seen him since Christmas, and have only talked to him once where he told me he would call me the next week and we would go to a movie and out to eat just mom and son time like we used to do all the time, I was so excited we use to do this all the time but he never called and hasn't answered my calls since. I am hurt but I am not sure how to tell him without making him mad (he would have to answer the phone first) Do you think I am being Paranoid? I am going to continue to call and leave messages but I hate crying myself to sleep over it my heart aches for him. I know God has his hand in this and it will work out and I need to trust him as to why but its so hard... OK I won't vent anymore I was just needing some good advice, I don't get along with my mother at all and swore that would never be the case with my sons and they would never wonder if I loved them I would do anything for them and will always be here so kyle if you read this I love you so much and miss you, PLEASE, Please call me Love MOM.
I am so sorry. I can't imagine how hard that must be for you. My prayers will be with you and your family. Stay strong.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear that. My mom goes through that with my brother. He is like that to all of us. Grown up girls are just different than boys about calling their moms.
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